Every Man Needs A Inner Pick-Up Artist

Tonight I was supposed to go to a friend's party with a close woman, and pivot, of mine, but I didn't. Instead we went to a decent bar here in Las Colinas. Why didn't we go to the party?, you might ask. To tell the truth, I just felt it would be a waste of time. Have you ever heard about a party, and get that feeling you were going to be disappointed the moment you walked through the door? Julie and I get there at 11:20 pm and settle down in a private booth, order our drinks, and soak in our surroundings. The bar left something to be desired, not target rich at all, surprising considering it was a saturday.

Julie is a great girl, and an even better wing. We've known each other for six months, dated for two of them. Eventually I ended up telling her about my PUA activities and exploits. Which was probably the best thing I could have done, because then she revealed she was bi. At that point our relationship changed. Having a woman as your wing is sooooo much better when your both after the same thing. Pawns are alright, but having a woman in the know, is priceless.

I warmed up a lil' bit by myself at first, then involved my wing. When I finally found my target, she was already engaged by an AFC. Normally I'd send my wing to occupy him, or ask her if he's a brother or cousin. However I decided to observe him for a moment. Listening while under the pretense of ordering another drink, It was painful, and brought feelings back of how I used to feel when cold approaching. AFC was well dressed, and had a good energy, but couldn't convey value, and when he tried, it came off Try Hard. Now I've been looking for a male wing for quite some time. Every time I meet with other PUA's in the area, it just doesn't click. Either their styles too far from my own, or their not used to winging in general and step on my toes. I understand it can be difficult to take a backseat and play the supporting cast, but it is a two-way road.

So I decide to give this guy a demonstration, and notify Julie of the gameplan. I walk up to Ricky, picked up AFC name in conversation, and whisper in his ear to follow my lead. Then aloud I apologized for being late because of work, Introduced julie and myself to set. I engaged the target HBblondie and her friend in interesting converstation while Julie isolated Ricky and let him know whats up. he seemed a bit reluctant a first but quickly warmed up and joined back in the conversation. Julie stuck to him as if they were childhood friends, even teased him a little. I then isolate HBblondie's friend, and nature took it's course. Ten minutes later I inform the set that me, Julie and Ricky are going to go back to the booth and enjoy dinner, however we did have plans to bar hop in Dallas on Tuesday, Ricky got their numbers. As the three of us are heading back to the booth, HBblondie say,"you better call me"...Misson accomplished. The look on this guy's face was more than enough reward for me. Almost as if he was confused, like he'd just seen a magic trick and was trying to figure it out. I explained everything to him and exchanged email addresses. I hope he contacts me, I believe he would make a great wing. Every man needs an inner pick-up arrtist.